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The 2018 Flanders Family Christmas Letter

What follows is another yearly installment in our family’s complete history told via the 2018 Flanders Family Christmas Update. To see a full listing, see Our Christmas Letters. For tips on writing your own family history in this fashion, follow this link. In the meantime, enjoy!

The Flanders Family Update: 2018

December 2017 Happenings

We spent most of last December backpacking Europe. The fact that David, Bonnie, and Gwen are now living in Germany (and loving it!) was all the excuse we needed to cash in our frequent flyer miles and head oversees.

Flanders family backpacks Europe

David and Bonnie

David and Bonnie with their Snow Dragon

It was a cold but festive time of the year to travel: Nearly every city we visited boasted a bustling Christmas market, aglow with millions of twinkling lights and flanked by bedazzled evergreens, elaborate nativity scenes, live choirs singing a constant stream of carols, and some rendition of St. Nicholas passing out free gingerbread, croissants, Swiss chocolates, and even giftwrapped toys to passersby….

The Flanders Family Backpacks Europe

To maximize daylight hours available for sightseeing, we slept on night trains whenever possible. This strategy worked well until Dad, Isaac, and Daniel ended up sharing a compartment with a stranger leaving Budapest who shook Doug awake every five minutes all night long and ordered him to quit snoring.

Night train from Budapest

Meanwhile, Mom, Gabriel, and the four girls packed themselves like sardines into a closet-sized sleeper with three bunks on either side. We snoozed soundly, but awakened with full bladders to find the deadbolt had malfunctioned and trapped us in. It took half an hour and an SOS call to the conductor to extricate us, with mere seconds to spare, before the train sped down the tracks toward its next stop.

on the train platform

train station

The kids were troopers for our whirlwind tour of the continent — hiking long distances without complaint, braving snowy weather, and watching out for one another at every turn.

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Note to self for next time we visit Prien a Chiemsee: (1) this boat passage is not covered by Eurail pass, (2) if you spend all your cash on boat tickets, visit an ATM before boarding, (3) restaurants on the islands don’t accept credit cards, (4) always check if a restaurant accepts credit cards before ordering, and preferably before being seated, (5) be sure you get off on the right island, (6) the Christmas Market is not on the same island as the castle, (7) the ice on the hillside is slick, so keep a firm grasp on the handrail while traversing, (8) although nobody tells you this, the castle tickets include a guided tour, so don’t keep your guide waiting, and (9) the castle is amazing — essentially a replica of Versailles, but on an island — so even if you forget everything else and you’re feeling cold, tired, and hungry, don’t turn back until you’ve seen it. #noregrets #learningfrommymistakes #flandersfamilybackpackseurope #flandersfamilytravels

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We sat through a 3-D showing of Coco in German (the theater was the warmest place we could find to await a 23:45 night train); afterwards, our boys popped the requisite lenses out of their hipster-looking, black frames and wore them for the duration of our trip.

3-D Glasses

The Flanders Family Backpacks Europe

At 3-D Museum in Budapest

At 3-D Museum in Budapest

Gabriel went beyond the call of duty in Venice, lugging Mom’s heavy and densely-packed bag in addition to his own across no less than twenty bridges. “If you made me do this, I’d hate it,” our nearly-11-year-old explained, “but when I’m volunteering, it’s so much fun!”

Gabriel in Venice

His dad and big brothers tried to give him a break, but he insisted on toting it all himself. We aren’t ready for this youngest son to be a man so soon, but he sure is starting to act like one….

The Flanders Family Backpacks Europe

Rome

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Zurich is home to some hungry seagulls. #theywereeatingoutofourhands #flandersfamilybackpackseurope #flandersfamilytravels

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Doug normally forgoes shaving when we travel, so he was looking a bit bushy by the end of our trip. His own wife mistook him for a homeless man at a busy metro station and felt a wave of panic when she glimpsed him ushering Abby toward a far exit.

Doug with beard

Doug and kids

Doug with Abby

Our first Sunday back, the cashier at Einstein Bagels took one appraising look at his predominately white beard and keyed in a “senior discount,” no questions asked. That innocent assumption was all it took to persuade Doug to shave it off posthaste, a decision his family applauded, but one that temporarily locked him out of his new iPhone, which didn’t recognize the whiskerless version of his face.

Doug with a beard

January 2018 Happenings

January brought snow to Tyler, but we were in Missouri at the time, enjoying even more snow and sipping copious cups of cocoa to keep warm.

Branson

Daniel in the Snow

One perk of traveling offseason: we had most of the museums entirely to ourselves, and our hotel upgraded us to an unbelievably luxurious presidential suite at no extra charge.…

Shepherd of the Hills Fish Hatchery in Branson, MO

Shepherd of the Hills Fish Hatchery in Branson, MO

Shepherd of the Hills Fish Hatchery in Branson, MO

Shepherd of the Hills Fish Hatchery in Branson, MO

Hollywood Wax Museum in Branson, MO

Hollywood Wax Museum in Branson, MO

Hollywood Wax Museum in Branson, MO

The documentary we taped with the BBC last summer — Miriam’s Big American Adventure — still hasn’t aired in the US, but it was broadcast in the UK this month to rave reviews. Even though our portion of the show comprised only twelve minutes of the three-hour program, we got letters from atheist and Christian viewers alike who tracked us down after watching to tell us how much they enjoyed it.

Friendly Family Game of Bananagrams

The show’s star and our dear friend, Miriam Margolyes, has maintained a faithful correspondence with Jennifer ever since our first meeting. She even invited us to visit her while we were in London, where she proudly introduced us to everyone we met as “my family.”

Miriam Margolyes with the Flanders Family

Miriam Margolyes and Jennifer Flanders

February 2018 Happenings

We hosted a Mother/Daughter Valentine Brunch in February. We had a delightful time getting better acquainted with our neighbors and are already planning to do it again next year.

Valentine Brunch

Valentine Brunch

Our children made over a hundred handcrafted, gospel-centric valentines, which the girls passed out to classmates at TJC.

Rebekah staffed again for TeenPact in Austin this month. Upon learning that no one had stepped forward to lead worship for the event, she enthusiastically volunteered for the job, despite having zero experience doing anything of the sort. This brand of unbridled courage has oft resurfaced this year, as when she lately signed up for a competitive women’s soccer camp at UT Tyler having never played the sport in her life.

Rebekah Flanders

[photo by Sarah Burns]

March 2018 Happenings

Mom brought home a couple of hula hoops in March, and the kids immediately began trying to outdo one another with them. Abby’s undeniably the most versatile: she can hula hoop even while walking, running, spinning in circles, jumping up and down, embroidering, knitting, reading, and completing pages out of her math workbook.

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Abigail takes multi-tasking to a whole new level. #hulahoop #goals

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Dan Dan the Muscle Man holds the record for time: 41 minutes and 27 seconds. He might’ve kept it going longer than that had Dad not accidentally bumped into him and sent the hoop rattling to the ground. Although understandably disappointed, Daniel showed amazing self-control when it happened and didn’t cry, scream, or act out in any way (we know of some professional athletes who could use lessons in exercising that sort of restraint)….

Daniel Flanders

Bowling

Bethany took Rebekah and Rachel to Sweden over spring break — an early and extravagant graduation gift — where they met up with David’s family to see the Northern Lights, tour the Icehotel, and go dog-sledding….

Sweden's Ice Hotel

David and Rachel

Dog Sledding in Sweden

Jon and Matti finally had their first girl this month and named her Lydia Hope. A blue-eyed, blonde beauty, she’s the spitting image of her mom who, after that string of six sons, has unleashed all her pent-up girl-mother instincts on this tiny new human. We have never seen the baby without a bow in her hair and suspect Matti must change Lydia’s clothes ten times a day, given all the pretty portraits she posts on Instagram.

Lydia Hope

[photo by Matti Flanders]

Baby Sister

Abby and Lydia

Jonathan moved his growing family into a lovely little house on six acres in Kilgore this spring — truly a provision from the Lord. Despite receiving substantially higher bids from five other buyers, the owners told Jon they decided to accept his offer as a way of honoring their mother’s dying wish that the homestead be sold to a family with a bunch of boys. “Boys we have,” Jon assured him. “Money, not so much!”

Jon's House

Tying Shoes

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

Saucer Swing

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

April 2018 Happenings

We’d planned to spend a week of April in Wisconsin. Our bags were packed and ready to go, but Abby fell sick mere hours before our scheduled departure time and spent her eighth birthday throwing up non-stop until well past midnight.

Abby & Bekah - Surprise!

Abby & Bekah - Smiles

One by one, the rest of the family succumbed. We passed the week lounging on sofas, dishpans in hand, and binge-watching The Office, grateful to have been home (and not on the road) when it hit….
Abigail

Watching Signs

Doug and the kids planted fruit trees this spring — pears, peaches, persimmons, pecans, plus several thornless blackberry bushes—then watched with bated breath as each specimen began to bear. Unfortunately, the birds and squirrels were watching, too, and devoured everything except the persimmons long before any of it was ripe enough to pick….

Planting Fruit Trees

The Persimmons Made It

Jennifer had the privilege of singing in the symphony chorus when the ETSO performed one of her all-time favorites this spring, Beethoven’s No. 9. She didn’t “break a leg” in the traditional sense, but she did fracture a toe the day of the performance after a ruptured grocery bag deposited a 24-oz jar of picante sauce on her bare foot (hence, she had to hobble onstage hours later hiding a pair of house slippers beneath her black concert attire).

ETSO Symphony 1

[photo by Scott Lieberman]

ETSO Symphony 2

[photo by Scott Lieberman]

May 2018 Happenings

After graduating with our homeschool group in May, Bekah and Rachel drove Isaac to Tennessee for TeenPact National Convention then flew to Colorado for two weeks of worldview classes at Summit. The girls plan to apply to UT Tyler’s nursing program after finishing the last of their core classes at TJC next spring….

Bekah & Rachel

[photo by Bethany Flanders]

Seniors 2018

[photo by Bethany Flanders]

R and R Graduation with Mom, Dad, and Bryan Hughes

Jennifer was invited to speak at a couple of Texas Home School Coalition conventions this month. The first was in Arlington, where two of her talks attracted crowds of close to a hundred attendees each, but the third, which suffered the misfortune of being scheduled opposite Pam Tebow’s keynote address, drew an audience of six: Doug (there to lend moral support), a conference worker (charged with introducing session speakers), and four young mothers who — presumably — either couldn’t find a seat in the standing-room-only hall next door or didn’t have any daughters of marriageable age. 

BethAs this was way before Tim’s recent engagement to Miss Universe, were Jennifer not committed to speak during the same time slot, she would have been tempted to attend Pam’s lecture herself to let her know that Bethany is still available — contrary to speculation by FreeJinger readers that she has a secret boyfriend her parents know nothing about.

“Oh, my word,” Beth protested when we told her their theory, “if an eligible man so much as said hello to me at the grocery store, Ma, you’d be the first to hear about it!”

Her advice for this year’s update?

“Describe me as a strong, independent woman who don’t need no man to complete her. That’ll counterbalance last year’s always a bridesmaid uproar, plus — with the double negative — Internet stalkers won’t know whether you’re promoting my independence or lamenting my need for a husband. Mwahaha!”

In the absence of a clandestine love life, Bethany spends what time she isn’t doing dentistry taking online seminary classes, learning Hindi/Devanagari (in preparation for a return trip to South Asia), and doting over her nieces and nephews.…

Boozer Dental

Star Wars

Jennifer fared better at The Woodlands (despite being scheduled head-to-head with Pam again). Not only did conference-goers attend her talks; they also bought her books. By the time we closed up shop, she’d completely sold out of 11 different titles and taken orders for dozens more….

At THSC Conference in The Woodlands

Joe proposed to Emi this month, who happily accepted. This hardworking couple spent the rest of the year planning their wedding (set for June 1, 2019) while attending a full slate of college classes, juggling five jobs between them (Emi drives for Domino’s; Joseph for Lyft when he’s not working at Jersey Mike’s Subs; and both served as TJC lifeguards all summer), and building a sizable nest egg with their earnings. Emi is a jewel, and we’re all thrilled she’s joining our family.

Engaged!

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

June 2018 Happenings

Isaac got his learner’s permit in June, three full weeks after turning 15 (it took Mom that long to prove our Texas residency). This self-proclaimed science geek also shed his braces this summer and added a few inches in height. At this point, he’s matched or passed everyone in the family save Ben and David, but is rapidly gaining on them, too.

Learner's Permit

When he isn’t reading up on black-hole physics or practicing piano, Isaac paints. His artwork has won lots of blue ribbons at the East Texas State Fair over the years, but the top competitor award they pinned on his reproduction of Van Gogh’s “Starry Night” this fall was nearly as big as the canvas itself….

Starry Night

Rachel is sporting an older, more mature look, too, thanks to a new pair of metal-rimmed glasses (they suit her bookish personality perfectly) and a short, stylish pixie reminiscent of the tangle-free haircuts she used to give herself as a toddler.

Blowing Bubbles

Rachel's Pixie Cut

While she loves the functionality and easy care of the new do — no wasted time taming tresses that could be better spent cramming for college exams, plus fewer handholds for babies when working in childcare at church — she didn’t relish being called sir by that boy in the serving line at Spring Creek (cue the hoop earrings and girly scarves).

Rachel & Easton

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

At 3-D Museum in Budapest

We were traveling the day Rachel turned 17 and celebrated by touring Chaney’s Dairy Barn, Kentucky Horse Park, Mammoth Cave, and a life-size, pictures-don’t-do-it-justice replica of Noah’s Ark.

Cheney's Dairy Barn

Mammoth Cave

Noah's Ark

When we stopped at the Pottery House Café in Pigeon Forge to grab a bite of lunch after a morning of indoor skydiving, Rebekah served up a big batch of bread puns. She was on a roll and kept dough-ling them out until we were all doubled over with laughter. “No knead to thank me,” she quipped. “It’s the yeast I could do.”

Indoor Skydiving

Taking Flight

Bread Puns at Lunch

July 2018 Happenings

We celebrated the Fourth of July by hosting a neighborhood block party — a fun excuse for fellowshipping with old friends and making new ones.

Getting Ready

Block Party

Fourth of July

Independence Day

We also attended a local fireworks display whose grand finale was precisely but unintentionally timed with self-activated septic sprinklers spontaneously spraying unsuspecting spectators (try saying that seven times fast and you’ll better appreciate how quickly we got our van out of the freshly soaked field once its slipping, spinning, sputtering wheels had sadly sunk in the mud).

Cow Appreciation Day

Cow Appreciation Day - Ben and Mik

2018 Happenings - Cow Appreciation Day

2018 Happenings - Cow Appreciation Day - Dan and Rachel

2018 Happenings - Cow Appreciation Day

August 2018 Happenings

August found Rebekah being baptized in the River Jordan. Our gregarious girl took a 10-day tour of Israel with Covenant Journey, but she’s yet to tell us anything about the places she visited; we’ve only heard about the people she met, many of whom she photographed to help cement the details of their stories in her mind….

Bekah's Baptism

Jordan River

New Friends

2018 Happenings - Rebekah Flanders

Horsing Around

Doug and Jennifer celebrated their 31st wedding anniversary this month. By a strange turn of events that only God could orchestrate, a couple of producers from ABC’s 20/20 were here, cameras in hand, to document the occasion on film.

Filming for 20/20

After contacting us a month earlier while doing research on fertility, they flew in for a face-to-face interview with our family and some like-minded friends of ours, Shaun and Abbie and their seven children (#8 is due in January).

Halberstadts with Claire and Keturah

The subject matter of this special report seems to have broadened somewhat since that initial meeting. They sent a second camera crew to film us packing for a camping trip, doing chores, driving about town, and answering scads of questions about what exactly we believe and how our beliefs affect the way we live.

Haircuts

At Efurd's Orchards

Our home

Camping Out

Bottom-line answer: We believe hope can only be found in Jesus Christ, who took the punishment for our sin upon Himself so that we can have eternal life through Him (John 3:16), a conviction that undergirds everything else we do. We don’t know when/if any of that footage will actually air, but promise to keep you posted in the event it ever does….

Storytime

Roller Skating

Doug finished re-reading The Lord of the Rings trilogy aloud this month. He and Jennifer both sobbed uncontrollably through the final chapters: Doug, because it’s such a moving tale, and Jennifer, because he’s read it to the family four times now — once a decade — and she knows by the time he’s ready to read it again, we will likely have no more children at home to listen….

Return of the King

The day after Daniel turned 13, we hit the trail again, this time heading west. Not only does homeschooling give us the flexibility to travel whenever we want, but it turns the world into our classroom (and for a fraction of the cost of private school tuition)!

Daniel

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

On the Road Again

We stopped at Palo Duro Canyon to see the Texas musical, in Amarillo to graffiti Cadillac Ranch, in Arizona to hike around the Grand Canyon, in Las Vegas to visit the Mob Museum, tour Hoover Dam, hone our sleuthing skills at CSI Experience, explore the National Atomic Testing Museum, gawk at the Real Bodies exhibit, raft the Black Canyon river, and do some target practice at Range 702 before driving on to California, where we met up with Doug’s parents for several days of rest and relaxation at Big Bear Lake.

Texas Musical

Cadillac Ranch

2018 Happenings - Grand Canyon

CSI Experience

2018 Happenings - Mob Museum

2018 Happenings - Black Canyon River Trip

2018 Happenings - Black Canyon River

2018 Happenings - Gabbers at Black Canyon River

2018 Happenings - Range 702

2018 Happenings - Big Bear Lake

Mom and Dad

We took Grandma and Grandpa bowling (the first time either had picked up a bowling ball in 45 years, despite having been on a league together as newlyweds) and enjoyed a morning cruise aboard a former pirate ship.

2018 Happenings - Grandma and Grandpa

2018 Happenings - Mom and Abby

2018 Happenings - Bowling

2018 Happenings - Abby and Grandma

Then, continuing on to the coast, we stopped in Los Angeles for a free but fascinating tour of the LA Times printing plant and in San Diego to visit their world-renowned zoo and see Sea World, which offers free admission (plus generous discounts on all-day dining passes) to veterans and up to three of their family members. Woohoo!

2018 Happenings - LA Times Printing Plant

2018 Happenings - LA Times Printing Plant

2018 Happenings - Sea World

2018 Happenings - Sting Rays

September 2018 Happenings

We were back at the books by September. Jennifer began homeschooling our five oldest grandkids a couple of days a week this year. This gives Matti a break and keeps our Fantastic Four from feeling so lonely now that most of their siblings have moved on.

2018 Happenings - Relaxing in the hammock

2018 Happenings - Home Depot Kids Clinic

2018 Happenings - Kids Clinic with Grandkids

Music lessons with Ms. Judy

Music lessons with Ms. Judy

Grayson

Timberdoodle provided the bulk of the curriculum we’re using with this younger set in exchange for a few blog posts from Jennifer reviewing the materials.

Timberdoodle Shipment

Unboxing 3rd Grade Curriculum Kit

Timberdoodle 3rd Grade Curriculum Kit

The kids love all the hands-on resources and even won several ribbons at the fair this month for art projects included with the kit (our little “Keep the Change” Abby was the family’s top earner in the Creative Arts Competition this year, amassing dozens of ribbons plus $50 in premiums for all her handiwork)….

With Creative Arts Entries

Abby at the Fair

Doug and Jennifer attended a blogging conference in Orlando mid-month. Except for one overnight marriage retreat (which we spent, ironically, in separate, gender-segregated dorms), this was the first solo trip we’ve taken in 31 years — since our honeymoon, in fact, which we also spent in Orlando. Historically, at least one child (and usually more) tags along.

EBA Blogging Conference

While we were gone, Ben (who’ll finish his Bachelor’s in biology this December) and Mikayla (who takes an occasional break from blogging at shygirlroars.com to fill in for Jennifer teaching algebra and essay writing classes at co-op) agreed to watch the younger sibs, who were thrilled to have a full weekend of unfettered access to Baby James, the biggest Flanders 15-month-old to date! They also came to our rescue when we hit a deer driving home from DFW. Mom and Dad escaped unscathed; the same can’t be said of the buck or the truck.

2018 Happenings - Ben, Mik, and James

2018 Happenings - At Tyler Rock Gym

2018 Happenings - Abby and James

2018 Happenings - Ben, Mik and James

October 2018 Happenings

Knowing Doug had officiated at Ben and Mik’s wedding two years ago and is slated to do the same for Joseph and Emi next summer, a friend of ours asked him to preside over his nuptials in October. Doug joked about making a part time job of his new clerical role, but considering how he obsessed over the preparations for this ceremony, there’s little chance he’ll turn it into a side hustle….

Grandpa

Samuel celebrated his 25th birthday this month. Just like his dad, Sam absolutely loves doing anesthesia; his unremitting attention to detail makes him excellent in the OR. His sweet wife is his biggest cheerleader, despite being kept very busy herself with clinicals for her Occupational Therapy degree (which she’ll finish in December with a huge sigh of relief).

Sam and Bekah

We don’t get to see Sam and Bekah Joy often, but did squeeze in a short visit — surprise! — on our way to Galveston, whence we cruised to the Bahamas aboard the Carnival Freedom.

2018 Happenings - Key West

2018 Happenings - Key West 2

2018 Happenings - Key West 1

2018 Happenings - Abby in Bahamas

Dad and Beth

Abby won the grand prize (nearly $200 worth of family games) in the ship’s Hasbro Game Show; Daniel, Isaac, and Gabbers finished second, third, and fourth, respectively, in the paper airplane folding contest; and Bethany (aka: trivia queen) was last woman standing in the movie trivia competition, landing her a starring role onstage in a hilarious Pirates of the Caribbean re-enactment.

Abby Wins It All

2018 Happenings - Paper Airplane Competition

2018 Happenings - FPirates of the Caribbean

We returned home with a nice collection of trophies, medals, and gift cards. Even Nana, who turned 81 at sea, made out well, as the crew lavished her with cake, cards, presents, and spa treatment coupons upon learning it was her birthday.

2018 Happenings - Nana's Birthday

2018 Happenings - FDinner aboard the Cruise Ship

November 2018 Happenings

We invited the founder of Global Heart Ministries to our home in November to tell family/friends about the incredible doors God has opened to get the gospel into some of the darkest corners of our world, then spent time in Dallas learning about another wonderful ministry: The Messianic Jewish Bible Institute.

MJBI Banquet

Rebekah and Rachel hosted (and did most of the cooking for) a “Friendsgiving” for their international classmates from TJC.

2018 Happenings - Friendsgiving 1

2018 Happenings - Friendsgiving 2

Samuel and Bekah Joy got unexpected time off and made it home for Thanksgiving. Jon and Matti hosted our family feast this year, to the delight of everybody in attendance.

Thanksgiving 1

Thanksgiving 2

Of course, we missed David, Bonnie, and Gwen, who aren’t due home again until January (counting the days!).

David and Bonnie

In the meantime, our entire family wishes you a merry and meaningful Christmas season. Write or visit us soon!

Flanders Family 2018

[photo by Bekah Lyn Flanders]

Christmas Card Assembly Line

2018 Christmas Card - front

2018 Christmas Card - Back

Much love from the Flanders family — Doug & Jennifer,
Jon & Matti (and kids), Bethany, David & Bonnie (and Gwen), Samuel & Bekah Joy,
Ben & Mikayla (and James), Joseph, Rebekah, Rachel, Isaac, Daniel, Gabriel, and Abigail

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Do you prefer to do your reading offline? You’ll find more of our family’s embarrassing moments, hard learned lessons, and hilarious family antics all in Glad Tidings, a compilation of our first 25 years of Christmas letters. It also includes a few favorite recipes, seasonal quotes, time-saving tips, and fun family traditions. Volume 1 is on sale now (we’re hoping to release Volume 2 in the year 2037).

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Christmas 1987:
Our honeymoon Christmas

Christmas 1988:
Proud new parents of Baby #1

Christmas 1989:
Baby #2 has colic & curls

Christmas 1990:
Diapers & diabetes

Christmas 1991:
Doug's clinical year at Southwestern

Christmas 1992:
Baby #3 is born hand-first - ouch!

Christmas 1993:
Baby #4 - don't we know what causes that?

Christmas 1994:
David gets lost at a garage sale

Christmas 1995:
Baby #5 arrives!

Christmas 1996:
A not-quite second honeymoon

Christmas 1997:
New job, new home & new son - Baby #6

Christmas 1998:
Extreme sports & broken bones

Christmas 1999:
Baby #7 - Beth finally got a sister

Christmas 2000:
Coast-to-coast tour of US

Christmas 2001:
Baby #8 arrives two weeks early

Christmas 2002:
Our first cruise & our first marathon

Christmas 2003:
House building, army duty & Baby #9

Christmas 2004:
Backpacking Europe with all nine kids

Christmas 2005:
Home church & Baby #10

Christmas 2006:
Our firstborn leaves the nest

Christmas 2007:
Another coast-to-coast tour & Baby #11

Christmas 2008:
Our second-born leaves for A&M

Christmas 2009:
Doug & Jennifer write their first books

Christmas 2010:
Baby #12, Grandson #3 & four in college

Christmas 2011:
Mission trips, moving, broken bones, & diabetes

Christmas 2012:
Dental school, MCATs, & State Championships

Christmas 2013:
Beaches, Babies, Surprise Parties & Medical School

Christmas 2014:
Baby squirrels and book awards

Christmas 2015:
Daughter-in-Law #2, Grandson #6, Books, Braces & BlueGreen

Christmas 2016:
A marriage, a move & 2 new dentists

Christmas 2017:
2 new grandbabies & a BBC special

Christmas 2018:
World travel, summer conferences & Grandbaby #9

Christmas 2019:
Roadtrips, a wedding, and 2 more grandbabies

Christmas 2020:
Overseas vacations and Covid lockdowns

Christmas 2021:
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Christmas 2022:
Four new grandbabies plus a big move

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"Getting to Know You" Ice Breaker

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Ice Breaker Bingo

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Christmas Word Scramble

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Party Preparedness Pop Quiz

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Who Gets What? Matching Game

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Christmas Charades

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Christmas by the Numbers Quiz

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Put the Baby in the Manger

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12 Days of Christmas Sing-a-Long

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Who Wore It Best? Matching Game

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Who Said What? Trivia Quiz

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What Child Is This? Christmas Quiz

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Name That Line Chirstmas Movie Quiz

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Christmas Travel Bingo

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How Well Do You Know Your Christmas Carols?

For Unto Us a Child is Born Quiz

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Elf Trivia Quiz

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While You Were Sleeping Trivia Quiz


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Knowing that several of the pastoral staff at our Knowing that several of the pastoral staff at our church were reading through The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry last month, I did too.  It didn’t take long to realize I’m more addicted to hurry than I suspected. (Injuring my hip shortly after starting this book brought my tendency to rush, rush, rush to light in a hurry.)  I found many of the book’s suggestions for breaking such an addiction helpful, although I also got the impression this author leans a little to the left politically (and maybe theologically, as well).  He gives some good food for thought but, as always, readers should be careful to eat the meat and spit out the bones.  #flandersfamilyreads
One more pic from our recent trip to Florida: We d One more pic from our recent trip to Florida: We didn’t get any fish, but we did catch a few rays while we were there. ☀️  And are we ever missing that sunshine now that temps in East Texas have dipped below freezing. Brrrrr, it’s cold outside! ❄️  #bundleup #keepwarm #florida #photoop
We usually read this book — recounting our own f We usually read this book — recounting our own family history — aloud to our kids every December, but we technically didn’t finish our most recent read through until January this year.  It took a while to get through them, because we had to stop so often to laugh or cry or discuss the antics recorded in each letter.  In addition to giving our younger ones a glimpse of what their older siblings were like growing up, the letters serve as a poignant reminder of God’s faithfulness to our family through the years.  I compiled this printed collection several years back, adding in several of our favorite Christmas traditions, recipes, and other “bonus material” for good measure.  It’s half-price right now on Amazon. I have no idea how long that sale will last, but If you’ve ever wished for a fly-on-the-wall view of what life in a large family looks like, this would be a good way to get it. 🤪  #flandersfamilyreads #christmasbooks #familyletters
Abby and I made lots of sweet memories at the Moth Abby and I made lots of sweet memories at the Mother-Daughter Retreat we attended last week, despite my having to leave early after injuring my hip. But —good news — it wasn’t broken and is feeling almost completely back to normal now, for which we are all very grateful!  #motherdaughterlove #havingfun #mybabyisnotababyanymore
Here’s another book I finished earlier this mont Here’s another book I finished earlier this month. I’d read and enjoyed a couple of Alexandra Kuykendall’s other books in the past, and Loving My Actual Life was written in the same vein.  In this volume, the author spends nine months tackling nine areas in her "actual life" (as opposed to the Pinterest- and Instagram-fueled ideas of what her life "should" be like) that need work, one at a time.  Many of the problem-areas she discusses in this journal-style narrative and the solutions she finds for dealing with them, will resonate with readers and point the way to improving their own situations. It was a fun, quick, and easy read with some good actionable ideas for loving your own actual life.  #flandersfamilyreads #bookreview #bibliophile #bookwormlife
The kids and I enjoyed a leisurely bike ride along The kids and I enjoyed a leisurely bike ride along the Florida coast while Dad and Nana were out computer shopping.  #flandersfamilytravels #freshairandsunshine
I’m behind again… not on reading, but on posti I’m behind again… not on reading, but on posting the books as I finish them. My second read for the year was an audiobook by Robert and Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth called You Can Trust God to Write Your Story.  I found it both enjoyable and encouraging. The authors take turns reading the book, detailing the stories of biblical, historical, and modern day believers and sharing the journey God has taken each of them through for their good and His glory.  #flandersfamilyreads #godisgoodallthetime
We enjoyed some gorgeous sunsets in Florida last w We enjoyed some gorgeous sunsets in Florida last week, including this one on Laguna Beach.  #flandersfamilytravels #goodtimes #floridabeaches #ontheroadagain
We got one more State Capitol stamp in our passpor We got one more State Capitol stamp in our passports.  #ontheroadagain #flandersfamilytravels #louisianastatecapitol
Does the new year give anybody else the itch to ta Does the new year give anybody else the itch to tackle home improvement projects?  We’ve been gaining a lot of good woodworking experience over here for the past week (and dirt work/stone laying before that). Today our new picket fence (hopefully) gets a coat or two of white paint!  #householdchores #fixerupper

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