Love Your Husband/ Love Yourself:
Embracing God’s Purpose for Passion in Marriage

Love your Husband/ Love Yourself: Embracing Gods Purpose for Passion in Marriage

  • Would you like to take ten years off your appearance, reduce your risk of heart disease, and simultaneously divorce-proof your marriage?
  • Are you plagued by stress-filled days and sleepless nights?
  • Do you long for a deeper, more satisfying relationship to your spouse?

Then this is the book for you.

It outlines a simple but Scriptural strategy for blessing your husband that, when faithfully applied, will secure blessings beyond measure for yourself, as well.

Isn’t it time you embraced God’s purpose for passion in marriage? Isn’t it time you began to unconditionally love your husband… and love yourself?

Click here to read the foreword.
Click here to view table of contents.
Click here to read author interview in The Northest Texan.

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Read what others are saying about LOVE YOUR HUSBAND/ LOVE YOURSELF:

Possibly the MOST important book a woman could read!
I was hesitant to purchase this book, “I have so many already” I thought, but through God’s Providence He led me to purchase it. Oh how I wish I could have understood some of this year’s ago! I have 9 daughters–and they will all receive one! Jennifer has a way with words that just really got down in my heart. It is obvious that she is not just writing about the subject, she has lived it–which makes it so believable, and embraceable. God’s ways are not our ways and I think most women have it so totally wrong when it comes to their husbands, especially in the intimacy and respect areas. Some of the things Jennifer wrote about were things that I guess I knew deep down, how IMPORTANT intimacy is…but yet I’ve still allowed it to fall by the wayside so many times. I have 11 children and reading that she has 12-and has a “no excuses” attitude motivated me to seek the higher ground of becoming who God desires I be for my husbands sake. THIS BOOK IS WORTH MUCH MORE than $14.95!! It could save a lot of marriages–how much is that worth?
Mom of 11 in Texas on

Standing firm in spite of life’s trials
Dear Jennifer, Thank You!! Thank you for your honesty, transparency, humor, encouragement and wisdom. This is a message openly opposed by our culture and sadly sidestepped by the Church… The institution of marriage in America is in crisis and Christians are fairing no better than the rest of the world. God has not overlooked that marriage is hard work, He hasn’t failed to notice that children and households require lots of tending. He didn’t create sex to extend a wife’s “to do” list but to protect and prepare couples so that they will stand firm in spite of life’s trials and responsibilities. Sadly, some of our friends’ marriages have not prevailed. Not one of those couples would say today, “Well, our physical intimacy was great…it was just everything else.” In every case, physical intimacy was one of their biggest (if not primary) issues. It cannot be ignored or reasoned away. In our culture and even in the church, so much emphasis is placed on the romance of courtship and marriage. We spend countless hours and dollars preparing for weddings and completely skip preparing our children for marriages! I barely got the message that physical intimacy was part of being a wife… one EVER made me feel like it was my PRIVILEGE! Until now. Thank You!
Amber C. on

Benefits backed by science
Jennifer, I’ve got to say that I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your book…. Thanks for all of your input into the science and benefits of a good marriage and how to keep it that way!!!”
Torri in Tyler, TX

Get this book for every bride-to-be on your list!!!
I have been married for 25 years and wish I had this book much sooner. To think I could have saved many years of frustration in my marriage as I would have understood my role as a wife and as an encourager towards my husband better. I praise God for helping me to know Him better through this book and what I am called to as a wife. Get ready to have your socks knocked off and get ready to be blessed beyond your wildest dreams. Your marriage will soar to new heights!
Sue at

This book is the talk your Mom never had the nerve to have with you
In most Christian circles sex is not really talked about. If you want to know why it is important to have this time with your husband then this book is perfect for you. The book is divided into two sections, one is about loving him physically and the other is about loving him unconditionally. The first section has different chapters that describe the benefits of having sex with your husband. The second section, also divided into multiple chapters, is more about ways to show you love him other then the act of sex.
Irene’s Christian Reviews on

Not just for newlyweds
This book may be geared to wives in their 20′s or 30′s, but in my “elder years”, it has been a blessing and a great review of what makes marriage work. The truth is the truth. Some will not be able to accept it, but Mrs. Flanders speaks only the truth from the biblical standpoint. As an older reader, my husband and I have had alot of fun conversation that we haven’t had in a long time, and it has sparked new respect for ourselves as a couple. You are never too old to learn. Don’t miss this one !!!!”
“Blessed Marriage” on

Best advice I’ve ever been given
This book is hands down the best all around and newly wed marriage advice on how to he happy and married, of any I have ever read and that was very many books! Jennifer does very well at pointing out the intricate design of a very wise creator. This is a must read for all marriages that want true happiness. True happiness is found in giving joy and grace to your very best friend. Not always easy, not always an inner urge, but always a blessing!
Lewis in Kinzers, PA

Ordering multiple copies
I ordered two of your books from Amazon on Monday, picked them up from the post office yesterday morning and have already finished the first section! I couldn’t wait to start reading it! Thanks for your courage to share this topic and your family with us. I will order several more…. I want to give them to several young ladies getting married.
Valorie in Mesquite, TX

I’m finally seeing clearly!
I have started reading your book. I love it. I feel like, I was blind, but now I see and I wish I’d have seen it years ago…. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this book. I’m reading, praying, crying and trying not to stress [my husband] out or myself for that matter.
Debbie in Collierville, TN

Highly recommended
I highly recommend it for all new brides, new mothers, and wanna be brides again!
Brenda in Tyler, Texas

Prescription for a beautiful marriage
I was privileged to get a copy ‘hot off the presses’ and am already thoroughly enjoying poring over each chapter. I want to be one of the first to give Jennifer’s book a plug: YOU LADIES NEED TO GET A COPY AND READ IT. YOUR HUSBAND WILL THANK YOU (in more ways than one!) AND YOU WILL EXPERIENCE SWEET JOYS IN YOUR MARRIAGE. Thanks for your boldness, Jennifer, to say what needed to be said.”
Kelly in Canton, Texas


  1. It’s funny how the Lord answers prayers at times. I had done and said some thing to my husband that I knew wasn’t right and I did say I was sorry but I had crushed his spirit and for 2 days he was cold to me. I know I deserved it but my heart cried out to God during those days and I was praying that the Lord would show me what he expected of me as a wife, and how to be a godly wife for my husband. I have read a few book on marriage and I would change for 2 weeks and things seem to be going well,and then I would slip into my old ways again. We have been Married for 13 years and 3 children. My husband would always say to me” I don’t want a good marriage, like everyone else,I want a great one”. At the time that just seem like a lot to ask for. I thought our Marriage was pretty good. Well we made up and 3 days later a older lady I knew came up from Arizona to see her children which were close friends of ours. I was throwing on a baby shower for her daughter-in -law and when she arrived she handed me a gift. Well it was your book that she gave me. I didn’t pick it up for a few days but when I started to read it God really showed me what I was doing to my marriage and how I had not been obeying him. I didn’t know I was sinning. I repented and right away I started to change my attitude towards my husband and not making my comments. I started to play with him and never turned him down for sex . That week he told me how much he felt loved and for supporting him with a new business opportunity that could be very big for him. God used some one all the way from Arizona,with your book to answer my prayers. I just wish I had read this book before I got married ,but I have a daughter myself and now I can show her how to please her Lord and her husband in her marriage. Thank you!

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