{"id":19993,"date":"2018-01-17T07:24:39","date_gmt":"2018-01-17T13:24:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/?p=19993"},"modified":"2021-07-21T02:30:33","modified_gmt":"2021-07-21T07:30:33","slug":"who-knew-childrens-chores-could-be-so-controversial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/2018\/01\/17\/who-knew-childrens-chores-could-be-so-controversial\/","title":{"rendered":"Why the Controversy over Children&#8217;s Chores?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-FB.png?resize=1024%2C747&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Children&#039;s Chore Controversy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-30261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-FB.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-FB.png?resize=600%2C438&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-FB.png?resize=300%2C219&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-FB.png?resize=768%2C560&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Never in all my years would I have dreamed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/2013\/11\/13\/age-appropriate-chores-for-children\/\">a simple post on children&#8217;s chores<\/a> would stir up so much controversy. But here we are, with highly opinionated readers weighing in on both sides of the issue. <\/p>\n<p>Many folks know instinctively that doing chores is good for children. <strong>Parents do their children no favors by attending to all the chores themselves while the kids play. <\/strong>Chores teach life skills, build confidence, contribute to family living, and prepare kids for eventual independence.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=1024%2C1020&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A few of the many benefits of having children do chores\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1020\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20002\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=600%2C598&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-1.png?resize=768%2C765&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Plus,<strong> when a child gains competence and experience in one area, it often improves his performance and willingness to try in other areas.<\/strong> These are all good things, and several readers noted even more positive effects of incorporating kids&#8217; help with household duties, as detailed below.<\/p>\n<h2>Benefits of assigning age-appropriate chores to children:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Chores &#8220;give children a sense of belonging, a sense of ownership in the world.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chores &#8220;teach responsibility and independence.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Chores &#8220;enable kids to meet the challenges they&#8217;ll face through life.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores help &#8220;develop self-esteem and prepare children for the future. It takes a lot of training to become a competent adult. When are they supposed to learn this?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores &#8220;teach teamwork.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores teach children &#8220;how to manage their time and be accountable for themselves.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chores give children &#8220;the joy of doing a good job and of helping others. <\/strong>Children who know they are helpful to those they love are ones who understand that they can make the world a better place.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores combat &#8220;laziness, self-centeredness,&#8221; and &#8220;feelings of entitlement.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores &#8220;turn children into good, productive, hard-working citizens.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chores make kids &#8220;feel important in the family structure.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Chores give kids an opportunity to &#8220;learn through participation. Children gain confidence by mastering new skills, especially skills they perceive as &#8216;grown-up.&#8217;\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Chores give children &#8220;hands-on job training for life!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Chores serve to &#8220;instill a strong work ethic. Children are more capable than a lot of people think.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chores show children &#8220;they can be competent and can do tasks well. <\/strong>We should teach them that while they&#8217;re young &#8212; they won&#8217;t magically learn it when they grow up.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=1024%2C1018&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A few of the many benefits of having children do chores\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1018\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20003\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=600%2C596&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=300%2C298&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-2.png?resize=768%2C764&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Several readers noted that children can often do far more than adults give them credit for. <strong>Many youngsters are eager and willing to take on real responsibilities and derive a lot of pride and satisfaction from rising to a challenge. <\/strong>We handicap our children when we don&#8217;t take time to teach them the life skills they&#8217;ll need to succeed as adults.<\/p>\n<h2>Those with an opposing viewpoint weigh in:<\/h2>\n<p>Unfortunately, a surprising number of people disagree with this whole line of reasoning, and I drew unexpected flack after posting my free printable list of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/2013\/11\/13\/age-appropriate-chores-for-children\/\" >Age-Appropriate Chores for Children<a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/2013\/11\/13\/age-appropriate-chores-for-children\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Age-Appropriate-Chores-for-Children-via-flandersfamily.info_.png?resize=1024%2C1320&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Age Appropriate Chores for Children | a free printable chart from flandersfamily.info\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1320\" align=\"center\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14929\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Age-Appropriate-Chores-for-Children-via-flandersfamily.info_.png?w=575&amp;ssl=1 575w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Age-Appropriate-Chores-for-Children-via-flandersfamily.info_.png?resize=233%2C300&amp;ssl=1 233w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Age-Appropriate-Chores-for-Children-via-flandersfamily.info_.png?resize=250%2C322&amp;ssl=1 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/> <\/a><\/p>\n<p>I suspect some of these objections may have come from kids rather than adults &#8212; maybe even kids who didn&#8217;t like the fact their parents had printed off my list and were now requiring them to pitch in. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>A boy named Alexander got right to the point: <strong>&#8220;This is bull crap.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He may be right, but as every good gardener knows, <strong>cow manure is just the thing for helping young plants grow big and strong. And having regular chores does the same thing for children.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=1024%2C1023&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A few of the many benefits of having children do chores\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1023\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20004\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=600%2C599&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=768%2C767&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Chores-3.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A few readers insisted I&#8217;m robbing my kids of their childhood (by asking them to make their bed or set the table each day). Others left comments like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>&#8220;Slavery was abolished long time ago!&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>&#8220;This list is an invasion of a child&#8217;s life. [Chores] are the parents responsibility. If you don&#8217;t [want to clean up the messes], you should not have had so many children.&#8221; <\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I love people who have children just so they can make them do chores. I\u2019m so glad I only had to take care of my own [stuff] as a child and not clean up after lazy parents who CHOSE to have children.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>&#8220;Chores are too much. Let kids be kids.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>&#8220;This list is a bit overboard. Try birth control.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Kids who are required to do chores are likely to become OCD about being clean all the time.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;If we require our children to do all of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and yard work by the time they\u2019re 12, what exactly do they need us for?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I do not agree with this list at all. My children are my reaponsibility [<em>sic<\/em>], I am their mom and therefor [<em>sic<\/em>] it is my job to care for them.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>&#8220;Making your children into your personal slaves does not make them better people or more productive humans.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But of all the criticisms and controversy over children&#8217;s chores this post received, the most bizarre (and our personal favorite) came from a guy named Ryan:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I can\u2019t even begin to explain how I disagree\u2026 This is not age appropriate. What is it, Shrute Farms? That\u2019s crazy talk like you would find while watching <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2DfIp2K\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Office<\/a>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Well, folks have called us crazy and made unfavorable comparisons before, but Ryan was the first to ever put us in a category with Dwight Schrute. That made us laugh out loud! I can only imagine how Dwight might have responded:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?resize=1290%2C950&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Dwight Schrute on Children's Chore  Controversy\" width=\"1290\" height=\"950\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-19996\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?w=1860&amp;ssl=1 1860w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?resize=600%2C442&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?resize=300%2C221&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?resize=768%2C566&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Dwight-Schrute-on-Childrens-Chores.png?resize=1024%2C754&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1290px) 100vw, 1290px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Then again, maybe Ryan wasn&#8217;t so far off in his estimation of our family after all. We don&#8217;t own a beet farm, but we do love beets!<\/p>\n<p>Just last week, when the garbage disposal under my kitchen sink sprang a leak, one of our very capable, chore-loving sons offered to install a new one for me. Our 7-year-old tagged along with her older brother to the hardware store when he went to buy the necessary supplies, and she came back home with some supplies of her own:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Abby-with-Beet-Seeds.jpg?resize=1024%2C744&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Abby with Beet Seeds\" width=\"1024\" height=\"744\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20011\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Abby-with-Beet-Seeds.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Abby-with-Beet-Seeds.jpg?resize=600%2C436&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Abby-with-Beet-Seeds.jpg?resize=300%2C218&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Abby-with-Beet-Seeds.jpg?resize=768%2C558&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Beet seeds! <strong>She can hardly wait to plant them this spring<\/strong>, and the rest of us can hardly wait to eat the fruit of her labors!<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and my new garbage disposal? It works like a charm. My son did a much cleaner, neater, more conscientious job with his installation than the &#8220;professionals&#8221; had done on the unit he was replacing. <strong>That&#8217;s precisely the kind of confidence and initiative having regular chores from a young age inspires.<\/strong> You can call it slavery if you want. I call it <em>empowerment.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As one of my readers put it so eloquently, <strong>parents need to consider what they\u2019re trying to do &#8212; &#8220;raise considerate, functioning, independent adults or whining, oversized, bottle-fed babies&#8221; &#8212; then adjust their approach to accomplish the goal!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So now I&#8217;d love for you to weigh in? Do you think a parent who requires her children to do chores is robbing them of their childhood? Or are you as baffled by this controversy over children&#8217;s chores as I am?<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=1024%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Children&#039;s Chore Controversy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-30260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Childrens-Chore-Controversy-IG.png?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/> <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2UZD3TZ\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Table-Talk-Ad.png?resize=1024%2C616&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Table Talk Book\" width=\"1024\" height=\"616\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-28198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Table-Talk-Ad.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Table-Talk-Ad.png?resize=600%2C361&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Table-Talk-Ad.png?resize=300%2C180&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.flandersfamily.info\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Table-Talk-Ad.png?resize=768%2C462&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Never in all my years would I have dreamed a simple post on children&#8217;s chores would stir up so much controversy. 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